By TylerR Oct 17 2017 Church MinistryThom Rainer: We routinely hear from pastors’ wives and ministry spouses. Their feedback is often heartbreaking. Today, we expound on their frustrations. 939 reads There are 2 Comments Some think that because the Jonathan Charles - Wed, 10/18/2017 - 1:16pm Some think that because the pastor is a public speaker, so is his wife. Yes TylerR - Wed, 10/18/2017 - 1:26pm Agreed. Tyler is a pastor in Olympia, WA and an Investigations Manager with a Washington State agency. He's the author of the book What's It Mean to Be a Baptist?