On Toxic Leaders (Part 1)

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(From Voice magazine, Jan/Feb 2016.)

By Kenneth O. Gangel

What Is a Toxic Leader?

A vast percentage of leadership books in both the secular and religious domains deal with how to move from average to good or good to great in your own leadership, or how to help other people on your team do just that. The same analysis holds true in peri­odical literature, both journals and magazines. That’s why Jean Lipman-Blumen’s book hit the market with a crash in 2004. The title alone suggests, one could say, an “alluring” analysis of something we have swept into the corner and refused to look at: The Allure of Toxic Leaders: Why We Follow Destructive Bosses and Corrupt Politicians—and How We Can Survive Them.

Defective Christian leaders rarely get their pictures in Time or Newsweek for defrauding employees or driving their ministries into bank­ruptcy, but make no mistake about it, we have toxic leaders in our midst. Lipman-Blumen won­ders why people follow such leaders and decides they do so because of a desire for dependence, a need to play a more crucial role in the organiza­tion, and just plain fear.

What allows abused leaders to survive, some­times even thrive? There must be a “buffering sufferer” who takes the sting from the top and softens it for those below. Middle management leaders can protect their people and make it pos­sible for them to effectively carry out their work undeterred by storms at the top.

But that stop-gap solution might not always work. We must understand the biblical and spiritual consequences of toxic leadership and attempt to at least cut the percentage of toxic leaders in the ranks of evangelical ministries. But first we have to begin with an understand­ing of the concept of toxic leadership. To be sure, toxic leaders are better described than defined, but toxicity is a clear term in the English lan­guage and I believe we can make the necessary crossover from the field of medicine to our understanding of leadership.

The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language (3rd edition) defines it as follows. The adjective toxic means “of, relating to, or caused by a toxin or other poison … capable of causing injury or death.” The word comes from the late Latin toxicus and from the Greek toxikon, both meaning poison. The noun toxicity simply means “the quality or condition of being toxic.” The noun toxin describes “a poisonous substance, especially a protein, produced by liv­ing cells or organisms, capable of causing disease when introduced into the body tissues but often also capable of inducing neutralizing antibod­ies or antitoxins.” We could go on, but you get the idea. Toxic often appears in connection with snake venom, alcohol, or fallout in the environ­ment from the mishandling of heavy metals such as lead, or solvents such as carbon tetrachloride.

Characteristics of a Toxic Leader

I have already mentioned a few of these above in my brief allusion to the work of Lipman-Blumen but the list of character­istics seems almost longer than we can treat. Furthermore, the complex blend of these person­ality traits in toxic leaders renders it impossible to pinpoint the exact problem through which the leader injects poison into the organization. The best we can do is acknowledge the presence of a toxic leader, then make an attempt to deal with it in whatever way possible to us at the time. So let me list ten qualities commonly found in toxic leaders in one or more blends, and then deal with each one separately in its own chapter. By the way, I intend no severity growing or declining throughout this list. These are separate entities, each one no less or no more dangerous to ministry than the others.

The Deceptive Leader

For this character trait we need no long sessions of debate or discussion; Scripture provides the perfect example in the third patriarch, Jacob. Surprised? The very fact that some readers thought I would start listing people like Hitler, Mussolini, Mao TseTung, or Saddam Hussein indicates already that we have the wrong concept of toxicity. A person with toxins in his or her body does not necessarily feel those toxins nor know their origin. If you have just been bit­ten by a Copperhead and you can clearly identify the snake to medical authori­ties, there is no guessing involved. But if you just go home night after night with a migraine headache and no physical cause can be found, you might be work­ing for a toxic leader and, sometimes, the toxicity might be deception.

The Autocratic Leader

Leaders given to total control of an organization, micro-managers, dictators, operate that way largely because they have an overly-developed ambition, or perhaps an inappropriate or inordinate ambition. This might be the most com­mon kind of toxic leader in Christian organizations because they can hide behind the authority of ordination, office, or even a particular interpretation of Scripture. They warn you and other members of the staff not to “touch the Lord’s anointed” lest God bring some destructive horror into your life.

The Egotistic Leader

Those familiar with the literature on leadership studies know that virtually every expert indicates leaders must have some touch of ego in order to take the point position and hold it through sun and storm. But let’s not confuse pride of workmanship with flat out arrogance.

The Incompetent Leader

People in a subordinate relationship find it most difficult to harbor the nag­ging thought that the boss might not know as much about their jobs as they do. I’ve spent a good part of my life working with students who graduated and enter assistant or associate positions in churches and other organizations. In some cases they walk into ideal learn­ing situations in which a veteran pastor full of wisdom can help them through the rocky early years. In others how­ever, they sign on with a church cursed by a leadership vacuum in which there exists a “Judges-like atmosphere,” people doing that which seems right in their own eyes.

The Ignorant Leader

A fine line exists between incompe­tence and ignorance. An incompetent leader simply does not know what to do. The ignorant leader simply does not know anything about leadership. He might be a walking encyclopedia in other areas, but incapable of understand­ing a specific arena of leadership. That explains why many faculty cannot func­tion as administrators.

The Cruel Leader

As indicated earlier, our minds immediately dance to this tune when we think about a word as nasty as toxicity in relation to Christian leaders. But thou­sands of people have seen cruel leaders in operation and still suffer the effects. I never fell into the curse of working for a cruel leader, but I did live with a cruel father during the earliest years of my life, so I have some personal sense of this disease.

The Evil Leader

Some leaders simply lack integri­ty and authenticity regardless of their titles. Have we not seen world renowned pastors and television evangelists fall into adultery or theft with some reg­ularity over the last several decades? Furthermore, evil leaders frequently come by their positions circuitously or even violently so their followers operate in fear right from the beginning. We’ll have to take a close look at this one.

The Demanding Leader

Almost all autocrats or cruel leaders are demanding, but not every demand­ing leader practices either cruel or autocratic leadership. In this chapter we will focus on the so-called “perfection­ists” who cannot stand errors in their own lives and ministries and therefore will not tolerate them in others. To be sure, one can more easily work with this person than some of the others, but the toxicity that emanates from such an environment destroys the team spirit we all want to develop in our organizations. Teams thrive on shared commitment. Without it, people perform as individu­als; with it, they become a powerful unit of collective performance.

In every effective team, the members genuinely agree to become account­able with and to their teammates. The dynamic that keeps arising here notes that a working group depends on the performance of individuals, but an effec­tive team is always worth more than the sum of its parts. Leaders who foster team development in the right place at the right time prime their organizations for top performance. As Katzenbach and Smith once wrote in the Harvard Business Review, “The difference between teams that perform and other groups that don’t is a subject to which most of us pay far too little attention (“The Discipline of Teams,” 2005.)

The Reckless Leader

I’m tempted to say here that one can spot reckless leaders most clearly by lazi­ness, but we know of many other forms of recklessness. We all find it difficult to serve lazy leaders if we are aggres­sive and eager to get the job done. But recklessness or carelessness can intro­duce toxicity to any organization. Titus learned this firsthand about two thou­sand years ago and we can profit from his experience.


Kenneth O. Gangel was Distinguished Professor Emeritus at Dallas Seminary and former Professor of Christian Education at Calvary Bible College, Kansas City, MO. Kenn also was a member of IFCA International. He went to be with the Lord in 2009.

Discussion

It strikes me that our writer understands well how things work out….now how do we prevent this? A couple of hacks that come to mind are:

1. Is it apparent what outside authority the person is using, if any? Watch out if there is no outside authority, or it’s used carelessly.

2. How does the person react when confronted with a different view? Does he lovingly counter, or does it become a fight?

Aspiring to be a stick in the mud.

James 3:13-18 comes to mind.

I think a major remedy also comes from leaders understanding the responsibility-power dynamic. Operational/decision-making power is always something God assigns as a tool set after assigning the responsibilities that require it. So if our mindset is “I am responsible for A” first and then “I have the authority to accomplish A” second, that goes a long way toward thinking straight about leadership authority.

Views expressed are always my own and not my employer's, my church's, my family's, my neighbors', or my pets'. The house plants have authorized me to speak for them, however, and they always agree with me.

http://www.amazon.com/The-Subtle-Power-Spiritual-Abuse-ebook/dp/B006K4P

“In a breakthrough book first published in 1991, the authors address the dynamics in churches that can ensnare people in legalism, guilt, and begrudging service, keeping them from the grace and joy of God’s kingdom.Written for both those who feel abused and those who may be causing it, The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse shows how people get hooked into abusive systems, the impact of controlling leadership on a congregation, and how the abused believer can find rest and recovery.”

I recall many IFBs being appalled by this book when it was first published in 1991. (Some were adamant then that such things didn’t take place in our churches.)

I’ve read it (and still own it); I must say I found it to be very instructive & helpful.

This is a topic that needs to be talked about more. Much more!

Toxic leaders can be found in all walks of life, both sacred and secular, in conservative (IFB) circles and evangelical circles. Unfortunately this toxic leadership is too often found in IFB circles because we have been taught through the years about submitting to authority. These people preach garbage about “touch not the Lord’s annointed.”

I can’t say enough how much I hate this kind of “leadership.”

I recently worked at an organization (IFB, Bob Jones type) whose leader acted like he was Leadership Messiah, but in reality was an emotional waif, consistently didn’t practice what he preached, was vindictive (including to board members), would pout (including in front of the board) if he didn’t get his way, was a horrible communicator and an even worse listener, and never, ever had your back. I could go on all day about how toxic it was. Truly, THE WORST leader I have ever seen. There is no second place in my mind after this person.

Example: I had emailed with this (cough) leader about something I had noticed in the employee handbook. This was apart of my job to review. He emailed me saying I had better things to do than looking out for myself. I didn’t care about myself, I cared about how it affected others. When I talked to him and asked him why he would say that and said I felt he was attacking my character because I didn’t care how it affected me, he said I should’ve communicated better so he wouldn’t think that about me. True story! All I did was honestly email him asking a question about the employee handbook.

After our time commitment was up we left that organization. We couldn’t wait to leave. He was truly a toxic leader on so many levels. It affected our health, our family life, and financially we won’t fully recover for a couple years.

I often wondered why the board didn’t stand up and say, “Enough.” I wanted to tell them about some of my experiences and then ask them if they would like to be treated that way. (Who would??) I wanted to ask them that if their answer to that question was “No,” then why did they think it was OK for this man to treat us employees like that - including some of their own spouses.

I’m sure we could all share horror stories. I want to point out though that both the best and worst leaders I’ve known were “IFB… of the Bob Jones type.”

… well, the worst leader title is maybe a four way tie & includes some definitely not in that category.

On the bright side, some IFB schools strongly emphasize the servant-leader model now, BJU among them… for quite some time.

Views expressed are always my own and not my employer's, my church's, my family's, my neighbors', or my pets'. The house plants have authorized me to speak for them, however, and they always agree with me.

Aaron, yes, fair points about the IFB-BJU type.

I am encouraged the current trend is the servant-leader model, which is the best sustainable model to follow.

Unfortunately, we still have to deal with knuckleheads who seem to have a messiah complex. That will never entirely go away, but at least the servant-leadership model should mitigate it and produce better leaders.

To those people, this isn’t a game. You are most likely in truth a big fish in a SMALL pond. You are dealing with real people, with real feelings, with families & financial needs. They aren’t your personal pawns.

Folks, I feel this is a serious issue.

Pillsbury and Northland are recent examples of institutions of training that this world and our churches needs. While I wouldn’t classify them as “toxic,” I will say they were closed due to bad management & leadership. (I’m not too familiar with Clearwater & TTU, but I suspect there are some similarities with Pillsbury & NIU.) Some people say things like “God was just finished with those organizations.” That is an easy, cheap cop-out, especially with the two organizations I mentioned because it doesn’t acknowledge accountability and responsibility

Our churches, related organizations, and the support people should not put up with this toxic garbage anymore. This is the Lord’s work with His resources using His people to advance His kingdom.

Per Mr. Martin’s comment is that the servant-leader model is not just the best sustainable model to follow. It is the only Biblical model to follow. Nothing wrong or incorrect with saying it’s the “best sustainable”, but it leaves wiggle room for those in the authoritarian camp to say “well, that’s just your personality”. We need to be able to say “no, it’s the way Jesus did things, and the way Jesus told us to do things.”

I can also concur with Aaron that the best and worst pastors I’ve ever had were BJU grads, and that per his comment on the new emphasis on servant leadership, the better one was the more recent one. But that said, we need to figure out what to look for—Aaron’s pointer to James 3 is welcome—and some shorthand of what to avoid is also needed. The signs will change over time, but there are certain things to look for and say “we’d better talk”.

Aspiring to be a stick in the mud.

I agree that the servant-leader model is the only Biblical model to follow. You said it better.