I know that modesty is subjective, and therefore one person's definition of what is modest and what isn't will be different than other people's definitions. That being said, what do you think is the best way to approach a sister in Christ regarding their immodesty, or the immodesty of their teenage daughters without giving offense?
When I go to church it is to worship God, fellowship with other believers, and encourage/edify each other. There are temptations I face every day "out in the world" that I would rather not fight while I'm at church. Some of the immodesty I see is either borderline or not alluring to me personally, but likely would be to someone else.
The problem lies in the fact that if I approach my friend and inform him that his daughter's clothing might be considered immodest to some people, the danger is that he will view me as some kind of pervert for even thinking about his daughter "that way". I'm concerned for my teenage son, the other boys in the youth group, and the other men in the church since I know how the male mind works.