In post 33 of the God is Sovereign thread Jerry Shugart wrote
If any force in the universe makes it certain that anyone will act in a certain way then that person's will is not really free.
So as not to hijack that thread, I am starting this thread to continue the Free Will discussion.
There is an archived discussion titled, Free Will, which I began on Oct 18, 2007 (thus the redux in this title).
That discussion links to another archived discussion titled, Questions concerning election, begun by Matt Walker on Sept 27, 2007.
There is also a link to a post on my blog titled, Free Will, which I posted on Oct 18, 2007

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...like my pastor once shared with me years ago and has held me in good stead, lo these many years: on the one hand we have God's sovereignty; on the other hand we have man's free will; and where the line is drawn between the two, we cannot clearly see in this life.
Disclaimer - Not ganging up on you here Anne - so please don't tell the folks at Berean in Hixson, TN that I did
What your pastor is seeming to affirm is Synergism, as opposed to Monergism.
Briefly the difference is that Monergism affirms that salvation is completely the work of God, where Synergism affirms that God and man work together in salvation. It's God's sovereignty working in cooperation with man's free will.
Synergistic evangelism follows a God voted, Satan voted, You Cast the Deciding Vote formula.
Calvinists affirm Monergistic salvation: God the Father elects a people; God the Son satisfies the wrath of the Father completely for those people; God the Holy Spirit effects the salvation of those people by means of the Word proclaimed.
As to free will, most folks think of free will as Libertarian. That type of free will just does not exist in reality, God does not even have Libertarian Free Will. God is constrained by His nature. He could not choose to lie because lying is incompatible with His nature. Satan, on the other hand, cannot choose NOT to lie, because it is in his nature to lie.
ALL free will choices have limits placed upon them. I can freely choose what clothes I want to wear in the morning, but that choice is limited to what is in my closet. I can choose whatever cereal I want for breakfast, but my choice is limited to what is in the kitchen cupboard.
Calvinists affirm that because of Adam's sin, and the depraved nature we all inherit from him, we CANNOT freely choose God, as that option is not available to our nature. In Romans 3:9-18 we see our nature represented; we don't seek God, we have turned aside, we've become worthless, and more. Romans 5:10 declares us to be "enemies" of God. We need to have restored to our nature that which Adam lost because of his sin. Only God can do that! Calvinism affirms that God effects that when He regenerates us, by removing our heart of stone and replacing it with a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). That gives us the capability to freely choose God, which all regenerated people do.
p.s. I started a new thread titled Regeneration Precedes Faith, with a link to an article on my blog. I
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