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"Sheep are among the dumbest creatures on the planet. They will follow a wolf under the right conditions"

By sifilings on Fri, 08/17/12
Church & Ministry
Sexual Abuse

Are victims of so-called “men of God” excused from following God?

If you are a victim, whether it was from someone at First Baptist Church in Hammond, or some other church, or by a so-called man of God, or someone with a name tag spelled “Christian,” realize that though you’ve been misled, though you’ve been hurt, though you’ve been betrayed, you will not be able to stand before God some day and say: “Well, your so-called man of God led me into sin, hurt me, and the reason I rejected you was because of that!” It won’t fly.

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Susan R

NewContinued victimization

Fri, 08/17/12

We are far too afraid of assigning any responsibility to victims because of the backlash that would occur. It is WAY politically incorrect to counsel victims about the things that made them vulnerable to false teaching, seduction, or even an actual physical attack (of course, there instances where a physical attack occurs that the victim could not have prevented regardless, but that’s not what the article is aimed at).

By not respecting the authority of the individual and addressing personal responsibility, we further victimization by not helping them to see the factors that led to their situation, what they can do to heal, and also to prevent it ever occurring again.

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Chip Van Emmerik

NewSusan R wrote: We are far too

Fri, 08/17/12

[Susan R]

We are far too afraid of assigning any responsibility to victims because of the backlash that would occur. It is WAY politically incorrect to counsel victims about the things that made them vulnerable to false teaching, seduction, or even an actual physical attack (of course, there instances where a physical attack occurs that the victim could not have prevented regardless, but that’s not what the article is aimed at).

Yes, somehow we have begun to only apply half of personal responsibility. The attacker is certainly responsible for the choices he has made, but the victim is also fully responsible for the choice he has made along the way. This does not minimize the plight of the victim, but it does require the full measure of justice.

Why is it that my voice always seems to be loudest when I am saying the dumbest things?

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